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Lucy is the second rescue dog I have
fostered, but the first Mastiff. I have owned Mastiffs for 5 1/2
years and am absolutely crazy about them! My two big guys are 5 and
5 1/2 years old. Needless to say I was happy that SSMR called to
set up a home visit when I volunteered online to foster--but
saddened at the same time to hear that a mastiff in Florida needed
our help the following week.
Hitting the ground running, I went
from volunteer to foster in a week and was lucky enough to be graced
with the presence of Lucy, one of the sweetest Mastiffs, or dogs for
that matter, I have ever met. There was nothing wrong with Lucy
(other than obesity); it was a divorce situation which
left her homeless.
I will spare you my personal
feelings on the matter, but I feel that if you love
something/someone so much, you will find a way for them. I brought
my own Mastiff overseas to South Korea while in the Army, so I know
ANYTHING is possible if you put some effort into it. These
individuals just failed to love enough, and Lord knows Lucy has so
much love to give. You can see it in her eyes after just spending a
couple moments with her.... Lucy kept up her end of the bargain,
and I can tell she does miss her old home, but she is adapting to my
foster home quite well.
SSMR volunteer Jewel McDonald met me
at the half-way point off of the interstate to do the
"transportation swap" and this is when I met Lucy for the first
time. She was huddled in the back of Jewel's van, afraid to come
out, as she already began to trust Jewel's friend who was nice
enough to escort her on the trip, and was staying close.
After some patient coaxing and some
"Lord knows what's in em" hot dogs, Lucy did come out, and we were
able to walk around together. We spent about 45 minutes getting to
know each other, both people and dogs.
Lucy quickly warmed up to me and
allowed me to pet her all over and check out her "portly" body
shape. It appears that Lucy had been the recipient of a combination
of too many treats and not enough exercise (I guess that's better
than undernourishment). She was 165 lbs, and probably was about 20
lbs. overweight for her bone structure and body type. Jewel
described her as "a watermelon on sticks!"
And I think that was a perfect description!
Lucy eventually warmed up and jumped
her first half into my van and waited for a little assistance with
the back end. Instead of making the car ride home in rear of the
van where the comfy dog bed was, Lucy chose to spend the whole trip
tucked right behind my driver's seat and we shared stories the whole
way home (OK, Lucy didn't really talk, but she's a great
listener!).
She did terrific in the car and
rarely moved around at all, except to maybe turn around and face me
almost as if to be closer. She appeared to fare quite well on the
car ride, but was timid to get out when we got home. Some more
patient coaxing finally got her out at my house, where Lucy checked
out my backyard in depth, and then came inside, all the while being
separated from my two male Mastiffs, Sam and Lobo.
She explored the house, going from
room to room, but always coming back to me, as if she didn't want to
leave my side. She was obviously scared of her new surroundings,
but found some comfort in being near me. Her tail was tucked
between her legs the entire time and stayed like that until almost 5
days later.
Once the indoor exploration was
exhausted, Lucy laid down in my den and though still obviously
scared, allowed me to sit with her, pet her and talk sweet to
her. She was an obviously very loving girl. I was still dumbfounded
how a family could manage to give her up.
She displayed no aggression, no
disobedience whatsoever. She was housebroken, knew the command
"sit," and was comfortable inside my home. I gave her the big
purple stuffed animal Jewel had bought her, but she didn't want it.
It didn't seem like she wanted any hard toys to chew on either. I
guess toys aren't her thing, or she has never been exposed to them
and didn't know what to do.
Being summertime in Florida, Lucy
got treated to 65 degree air conditioning in the house, to make her
more comfortable and to help her destress. (I froze that
night!!!) Eventually I curled up with Lucy on the floor and we slept
together on the floor for a while, her allowing me to cuddle with
her, which seemed to comfort her.
Eventually we moved into the
bedroom to go to bed for the evening and she laid on the dog bed on
the floor alongside my bed and stayed there all night, sleeping
well, snoring a little, and not waking up until I got up in the
morning.
It appears that Lucy likes to sleep
late (who doesn't?) and will stay in bed until her owner decides to
get up.
Lucy eventually was introduced to my
two male Mastiffs and they all get along great!
My boys seem to protect her like she
is their girlfriend. They seemed to sense that Lucy is undergoing a
tough time, being uprooted from her home and scared of her new
surrounding, so somehow they know to give her space and be sweet to
her. Sam tried to bound around her as if to ask her to play, but
she just looked at him like he was crazy!
Either she doesn't "play" or she is
still not comfortable with her surroundings, which was
understandable. Lobo walks by and gives kisses and shares his water
bowl with her. They all are not being separated because they get
along wonderfully.
In Lucy's first couple of days in her
foster home, she started to go for long walks (20 minutes) and she
proved to walk beautifully on a leash around the neighborhood. She
pays no attention to passing cars or other dogs and cats sitting in
people's yards.
She just walks along, bee-bopping
through the neighborhood, working on her weight-loss regime. Lucy
played dress-up with some fun doggy costumes one day to humor me,
and didn't mind being dressed up as a bumble-bee, a reindeer, and
some other funny hats that adorned her sweet face. I would imagine
that a family with children that adopted Lucy could feel comfortable
that she would tolerate playing "dress up".
Lucy and I walked to a church
daycare down the street and all the children came to fence to see
the "big dog" and though she was still timid of her new
surroundings, she did seems to enjoy being around the children
there. Lucy traveled on a 4 hour car ride to Alabama this weekend
with me and my other Mastiffs and she went to the lake where she met
several other dogs off leash.
At first, she ran away from them
and sought me out, but then warmed up to them being around her and
running past, and she paid them no mind. She actually sought out
the children at the lake and seems to find comfort in them. Lucy
spent the majority of the day sitting and wading in the water at the
lake next to my beach chair, never going to swim on her own. But I
did bring her out into the lake with me to help her swim, and she
was great! She can swim (thanks to her layers of blubber she floats
like a champ!!!), but seems to prefer just sitting like a happy fat
little clam in the shallow water. She didn't run after the ball
that was being thrown around, so I wouldn't tag her a retriever in
any way!
After the lake, Lucy went to doggy
day care in Alabama, where her and my boys are living it up for
the week while I am 3 hours away from them on business. (My good
friend owns the daycare and they are getting family-style
attention and care there.)She does just fine at doggy day care,
as it is a completely open indoor facility. Throughout the day,
the mastiffs can retreat to their own fenced-off room to get
away from all the craziness and just chill on the couch or the
floor. I will pick her up this weekend and can't wait to see
her again.
Some milestones she made just in the
first 5 days of fostering her were amazing. She now warms up
quickly in new situations. On Sunday when I visited her at
doggy day care, her tail wagged for the first time! And she
barked for the first time!And she actually cried for me when I
left the room once. I was so happy to see some enthusiasm from
her!
Her tail started wagging and
didn't stop for quite some time! She is becoming a happier
little watermelon with every passing day!
The one thing I do worry is that
she has hardly eaten since I have had her this week. She didn't
eat until the second day, and when she did, she ate only about a
cup of dog food and a cup of canned salmon. Then she didn't eat
for a couple more days. She needs to lose some weight anyway,
and dogs will eventually eat when they get hungry enough, but
she was certainly stressed at first and refused to eat.
I expect her to start eating more
soon. She will be on a diet from here on out, and needs to trim
off twenty pounds to be healthy. Overall, fostering Lucy has
been an absolute delight. She truly is no trouble. She sheds
far less than my Mastiffs do. Her coat is at soft as a puppy's.
She spent 9 hours inside while
I was at work and had no accidents whatsoever. I feel confident
in saying that her adoptive family (who will be very lucky to be
owned by Lucy!) will never have to worry about her having an
accident in the house.
She is gentle in taking food
from your hand. She loves to sleep in your bed, but will only
get up if invited. She doesn't stretch out and hog the whole
bed. She walks just fine on hardwood floors, and doesn't mind
spending 50% of her time on them, and then the other 50% on the
carpet or dog bed. And quite honestly, Lucy is in great shape
for being 7 years old-She has no gray fur at all. And she does
not appear to have any visible health problems either. Very
lucky. Both of my Mastiffs are younger than her and they do have
health problems off and on, but not Lucy.. She is healthy as a
horse!
She definitely prefers to be
inside the house. She seems to only like to go in the backyard
to get some water and go potty, and then will race right back
inside. Her stay with me, as well as at doggy day care, has
been a blessing. One will notice that the people in Lucy's life
are the lucky ones. You find yourself wanting to spend every
minute with her.
Her sweet expression is
genuine, and her love is sincere. My heart aches to know that
there is a perfect family out there for her in this world...it's
just a matter of everything matching up and the two parties
meeting. A family with kids and a stable household would be
perfect for her. They would be getting unconditional love from
Lucy. I hope that family comes along soon.
I don't have any children, and
I do have the time and resources to foster Mastiffs, but what
Lucy needs in a forever home is a family with parents and
children. Fostering is my way of helping the Mastiff
community. I figure I have the time (most of the time..being
military I have to board my dogs twice a year) and the space,
and it's a nice change for my dogs to have a fresh face in the
house.
But I draw the limit at two
Mastiffs in my home as permanent members, which is why I choose
to help by fostering, not adopting any more dogs.
The foster experience is
rewarding and will be bittersweet when I say goodbye to her. It
will be hard to give up Lucy to her "Forever Home," but I know
that Lucy is an ideal Mastiff for those thinking of adopting and
need a dog that is good with children. Will you be the one?
Jen McKay
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